Tips if you are struggling with body image in lockdown

Most of us have experienced big changes to our routine in lockdown, including changes to our diet and how much we move about or exercise. This may have an effect on our bodies and, potentially, our body image.

We asked our Activists and bloggers what helps them when they’re struggling with their body image. Here’s what they said.

I once saw a post online that changed the way I perceive myself. It encouraged others to appreciate their individual body parts for their function rather than the way they look. Since then, I have tried to thank my body. I thank it when it lets me go on long walks and allows me to witness the sea. I thank it when it manages to lift up a particularly heavy box. I also, most importantly, thank my body even when it is in pain, or when it doesn’t want to get out of bed, or even when it doesn’t look good in my favourite outfit anymore because I have put on weight.

It’s so crucial to thank it just for being and for doing all it can to support you – by treating my body like its own person, it automatically gives me respect and love for it.

- Emma, 18

The body positivity movement is amazing. Seeing people who love themselves for exactly who they are and how they look be so prominent in our society really gives me hope for the future of a more accepting world. However, it can be harder than it seems to break into the world of acceptance and positivity when it comes to yourself and your own body.

For me, the body positivity movement seemed too daunting to even try. It felt very all or nothing - a lot of the language people use made it seem like you either love your body or you hate it. Why wasn’t there a middle ground?

This is where the body neutrality movement is so helpful. Body neutrality, for me, is a more attainable way of making peace with the way I look and the things I don’t like about my body. Instead of forcing myself to love every little thing I try to focus on neutral statements about my body when my brain switches to negative self-talk.

For example: If I notice I’m being negative about the way I look, I take myself away from that train of thought and focus on neutral statements about my body instead. So instead of “I hate my legs” which is a negative statement, I say “my legs get me from place to place” - a more neutral statement.

In my experience body neutrality is a stepping stone to unconditionally accepting and loving who you are and how you look.

- Maddie, 19

The same goes for food - adopting a healthy lifestyle can have great benefits for your physical health and mental wellbeing. This doesn’t mean, however, that you have to stop eating all the foods you love! Eating in moderation, having lots of fruit and vegetables and drinking water will boost your mood and help maintain a healthy weight. It’s also so important to make sure you’re eating enough. Restricting what you’re eating will make you feel miserable, tired and lethargic. Trust me.

Your body deserves to be nourished and you deserve to be able to eat foods you enjoy, whether that’s fruit, pizza or chocolate cake (my personal fave). Alternatively, if you’d rather order a pizza and eat ice cream, go ahead!

- Alice

I have a mental health condition called body dysmorphia, which means I see my body in a very different way to how it actually is. My change of routine has, naturally, led to a change in my body, which started to exacerbate some of my symptoms.

When I’m struggling, I find it helpful to give my mind something to do. The extended period of time we are staying at home means that we can let our thoughts slip into negative patterns, which can result in self-doubt. Instead, actively engage your mind in activities such as puzzles, reading, or other hobbies that you enjoy.

- Elsie

As cliché as it sounds, you are absolutely perfect as you are. Not just due to what you look like in the mirror, but because of all the wonderful things about you that you don’t even realise – the things that everybody else sees. On a real level, people remember you by your personality, your kindness, your sense of humour, your intelligence. Gaining a couple of pounds during this time is not going to affect how anybody sees you at all, I promise.

Just getting through this difficult, confusing time is a massive achievement and is a reflection of how resilient you are. If surviving quarantine for you means adopting an exercise routine and eating more vegetables, then that’s brilliant. If surviving quarantine for you means lying in bed all day watching Disney films and eating chocolate, that’s brilliant too! There is no rule book on how to be ‘successful’ at this time - how you get through the next few weeks and months is completely personal to you and the most important thing you can do at the moment is to be kind, especially to yourself and your body.

- Alice