Waiting for a CAMHS referral can take a long time. We asked our bloggers and Activists where they found support while they were waiting. Here's what they said.
Online
If you've made it to this blog post, chances are you've probably looked for support online already. This was my first step after being put on the waiting list. I mostly wanted to know how long I'd need to wait to reach the top of the list. To be honest, the answer was disappointing, so I turned to some online charities to help. Obviously, YoungMinds is a great place to start as it covers a range of different mental health issues. I've also found help on the following websites:
- Anxiety UK - I have anxiety, so this was an obvious starting point.
- Mind - This charity offers similar services to YoungMinds, but is great for some more information.
- Childline - Childline has an interactive website you can get support from, which includes a helpful toolbox feature.
- Georgie
Childline has a great service where you can message a trained professional for free.
- Luke
School
If you're in school, then talk to your pastoral team as they often have people dedicated to supporting mental health and might be able to help make school easier or less pressure for you.
- Tara
It can be scary telling people that you are struggling, but talking to your school can really help you. Chances are you aren't the only student who is struggling with their mental health, and the school probably already has some kind of internal support system. Speak to a teacher you trust, and they should be able to help you.
- Georgie
Books and podcasts
Reading or listening to someone else's advice can be really helpful, especially if you're looking for ways to cope. Different people deal with things in different ways, and learning about how someone else manages their mood can help you work out how to manage your own. Sometimes your GP will also recommend certain books to help with Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) and improving your mental health in the long run.
- Georgie
Journaling
I found journaling really helps me. Feelings like this don't last forever and in the end, it's great to see how much progress you've made when you're feeling better.
- Luke
Clubs and youth groups
I'm a member of a few different clubs, which have given me a lot of support. Sometimes keeping yourself busy is the best option, as it gives you something to do which takes your mind off whatever you're facing. Also, finding like-minded people can be helpful in the long run. Try not to crowd yourself with activities though, because then it can become avoidance.
- Georgie
Talk to people you trust
Talk to people you trust! Go back to your doctor or look for local charities you can get support from in the meantime.
- Georgia
Talking to someone about my feelings lifted a burden I didn't even realise I was carrying.
Get urgent help
If you need urgent help, you can message the YoungMinds Textline for free by texting YM to 85258.
Where to get help
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Childline
If you’re under 19 you can confidentially call, chat online or email about any problem big or small.
Sign up for a free Childline locker (real name or email address not needed) to use their free 1-2-1 counsellor chat and email support service.
Can provide a BSL interpreter if you are deaf or hearing-impaired.
Hosts online message boards where you can share your experiences, have fun and get support from other young people in similar situations.
- Opening times:
- 24/7
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The Mix
Offers support to anyone under 25 about anything that’s troubling them.
Email support available via their online contact form.
Free 1-2-1 webchat service available.
Free short-term counselling service available.
- Opening times:
- 3pm - 12am, seven days a week